I have to say, I've read a lot of posts from yourself (nice to meet you) and they never seize to amaze me.
On one hand you say "copying a look & feel is not an issue", then you go on to say later that "we know how much effort is required to come up with something unique". Now regardless of the law because this is certainly something that the law would never be involved with anyway (it's not worth it), would you not support people who have their work ripped? Whether it's graphical or not. I understand that layouts can be similar, of course. However it's obvious in this case that the guy has come along and straight ripped from our website - even the content (words etc) are exactly the same. So he didn't just come up with a "similar layout", otherwise I wouldn't be so pissed off.
If you knew how much effort it was to come up with something unique, you guys (moderators, administrators here) would probably take action against people ripping other sites directly for production use. Especially when the person doing this is clearly deluded (else he wouldn't have claimed to be working on this for some days). Ripping sites to play with, mess around, learn? Sure, we've probably all done that - in a local test bed. Not for a website you intend to publish publically and you certainly wouldn't take the credit for it, regardless of how simple the layout /design was.